Copy/Paste is dying...

[HedoRick]

Hey guys, in my area, especially on the free sites, lots of dudes are setting up fake email accounts to catch and re-use your best openers. This is especially bad on okcupid, I created a great message, spammed it out for a few weeks, last night, at least 6 chicks said they've received the same email from other dudes... I am 6 foot 4 and considered handsome- but if the chick has seen that opener from lots of other dudes, it makes you look lame. Even if you were the one that created the opener in the first place...

The only solution is a good form letter with a ps. and noticing something in her profile at the end of the message.

Hit me up with a PM and your city of residence and i'll be glad to send some form letters your way.

 

[Albatross953]

Still waiting brother!

 

[HedoRick]

Hey man,

I checked my PM's and for some reason didn't get your message. I'll PM the emails to you. Anyone else feel free to hit me up to with your city of residence.

I am laid up with the flu today, so I've got time for pm'ing.

 

[Yewki]

I think you're being a bit paranoid man, but in either case just stop sharing your openers!

 

[Robert28]

There are a lot of desperate, lonely dweebs out there. That's what you're competing against on those online dating sites mostly.

 

[Pardner]

Everybody is copying and pasting these days.

 

[HedoRick]

Not being paranoid, it just seems like time are changing with online game. Just need to make some adjustments due to other's lack of creativity. I am still killing it on match, my guess is because okcupid is free, there is a lot more "dummy" profiles on that site.

 

[IndeedSir]

Don't use canned stuff. For me this includes pick up lines, negs, openers etc. Focus on inner game and that stuff comes naturally.

 

[Tictac]

Carpet bombing?

Nice standards.

 

[backseatjuan]

I'm so glad there is no problem with that here. :crackup: Problems with sex is so sad. I had that when I first come here, but then I stuck my head out of my ass, and saw that you can get laid so easy, it's not even worth learning pick up and stuff. PUA has become just a stuff to know for your work, to psychologically convince people to give you money for your services. Women, that's the easy part, walk to them, strike a conversation, if she likes you, you getting laid. You guys are virgins in the states. :crackup:

 

[JohnnyStorm]

Not being paranoid, it just seems like time are changing with online game. Just need to make some adjustments due to other's lack of creativity. I am still killing it on match, my guess is because okcupid is free, there is a lot more "dummy" profiles on that site.

What kind of response rates are you geting through Match then? Are you still copy and pasting on there?

 

[HedoRick]

Carpet bombing used to be the gold standard, but things are changing. It's just like anything else, adjust to the changes, or start a "nofap" thread.

Can't compare online dating to real life interactions. It is a different beast.

 

[HedoRick]

On match I send a form letter customized to her profile. I get a 70 percent response rate. And the chicks are much hotter on that site.

 

[Yewki]

On match I send a form letter customized to her profile. I get a 70 percent response rate. And the chicks are much hotter on that site.

I find this hard to believe, unless you are very attractive and exclusively spamming people way under your league... in which case, I wouldn't understand the point.

I think you're over emphasizing the importantce of the initial message. The thumbnail she sees of you before she even reads your message is worth a thousand words alone. Yes, the message is important... but only once you're physically competitive with the other dudes messaging her. For example, if she's a 5 and you're a 7... great, you're probably very competitive with the other dudes messaging her. You could write, "Hi how are you?" and she'd respond 70%+ of the time. If she's a 7, and you're a 7... good luck. Not saying it isn't worth trying, but there are plenty of 8-9's messaging her and no matter what you write your response rate will be very low.

 

[HedoRick]

I'm 6 foot 4, Caucasian, and considered handsome. Don't think it would work out the same for everyone. However, that being said, if she's seen the same email 5-6 times before you send it, it still seems weak.

This will be my last post on SS. Can't seem to help some on here, because some are not willing to open their mind to new ideas.

ONL is a skill set just like any other facet of game, and times are changing.