mahon83050
Banned
Any takers on this one. Basically, a nice urban setting (where one can walk to places) and where seems to be alot of young people.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Cool places to live in NYC metro area besides Hoboken?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
a surburban place in the metro? Strange.... try google earth
LowPlainsDrifter
Senior Don Juan
Actually, Harlem is becoming very upscale and a move-to destation for young people.
Brooklyn is going in that direction, too.
Brooklyn is going in that direction, too.
mahon83050
Banned
Harlem, give me a break. I am white, have NO desire to live in Harlem and would not be welcome either.
Parts of Brooklyn are cool, as well as Queens. Manhattan is too expensive and chaotic.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Prophett
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It's surprising, you living in the tristate area and having about as much knowledge of NYC as some denizen of middle america or even worse a down-south hick. You need to get your facts straight bro...
mahon83050
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That is because I am from the Southern part of NJ and never ventured off into NYC often.
Prophett
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Harlem or anything above 125th st is going through gentrification as it has been for some time- higher rents are driving many of the minorities or lower income people that lived there for years out (most likely to the bronx) in favor of middle to upper class professionals (many of whom are white). With that said, even in the more predominately black and latino neighborhoods, you won't be bothered because of the color of your skin. This isn't the 70s and 80s where you would no doubt be risking an ass whopping for venturing into one of those neighborhoods as a caucasian.
And regardless, it's new york-you can be in one of the most affluent neghborhoods in the city and then walk one block down and be in the ghetto.
If you want a nice neighborhood with reasonable prices I would suggest an area like forest hills in queens or certain parts of brooklyn (such as williamsburg which will probably become pretty darn expensive in a few years).
For more indepth information that could assist in your search go to this site-
newyorkmetroguide
And regardless, it's new york-you can be in one of the most affluent neghborhoods in the city and then walk one block down and be in the ghetto.
If you want a nice neighborhood with reasonable prices I would suggest an area like forest hills in queens or certain parts of brooklyn (such as williamsburg which will probably become pretty darn expensive in a few years).
For more indepth information that could assist in your search go to this site-
newyorkmetroguide
DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
r u one of those white people that thinks every black person hates them?
people these days.......DJ_in_making
Master Don Juan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mahon83050
Banned
No.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
r u one of those white people that thinks every black person hates them?
However, racism still exists and the races are still very segregated...look around you.
A predominant black neighborhood prefers not to have any white people in their neighborhood and vice versa. If you think otherwise, you are ignorant.
LowPlainsDrifter
Senior Don Juan
When I take the train into NYC, I see a lot of upscale looking apartments near the 125th st station that weren't there before.