mahon83050
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Any takers on this one. Basically, a nice urban setting (where one can walk to places) and where seems to be alot of young people.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Originally posted by mahon83050
Any takers on this one. Basically, a nice urban setting (where one can walk to places) and where seems to be alot of young people.
Harlem, give me a break. I am white, have NO desire to live in Harlem and would not be welcome either.Originally posted by LowPlainsDrifter
Actually, Harlem is becoming very upscale and a move-to destation for young people.
Brooklyn is going in that direction, too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Harlem, give me a break. I am white, have NO desire to live in Harlem and would not be welcome either.
That is because I am from the Southern part of NJ and never ventured off into NYC often.Originally posted by Prophett
It's surprising, you living in the tristate area and having about as much knowledge of NYC as some denizen of middle america or even worse a down-south hick. You need to get your facts straight bro...
r u one of those white people that thinks every black person hates them?Originally posted by mahon83050
Harlem, give me a break. I am white, have NO desire to live in Harlem and would not be welcome either.
Parts of Brooklyn are cool, as well as Queens. Manhattan is too expensive and chaotic.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No.Originally posted by DJ_in_making
r u one of those white people that thinks every black person hates them?people these days.......
When I take the train into NYC, I see a lot of upscale looking apartments near the 125th st station that weren't there before.Originally posted by mahon83050
Harlem, give me a break. I am white, have NO desire to live in Harlem and would not be welcome either.
Parts of Brooklyn are cool, as well as Queens. Manhattan is too expensive and chaotic.