"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Cool People only club?
- Thread starter gregory
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
AlexTheGreat
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AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
AND YOU'RE NOT INVITED!!!
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Youre a tool. Lay your head down or bow down in shame for that STOOOOOOPID ASS question.Originally posted by gregory
Is there such thing as a club only for cool people, like i mean, people who are extremely rich, popular, cool, nice and smart and everything?
that would be pretty sick if u could have a club like that.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
idiot_boyfriend
Senior Don Juan
Hey man, I play golf. The team is definitely not full of rich, nice, and smart people.Originally posted by AlexTheGreat a golf club ?
Hollowpoint
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I no longer have hope for the new generation.Originally posted by gregory
Is there such thing as a club only for cool people, like i mean, people who are extremely rich, popular, cool, nice and smart and everything?
that would be pretty sick if u could have a club like that.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
For why??? You can join my cool people only club....its reallly coooooooooooooool!!!Originally posted by Hollowpoint
I no longer have hope for the new generation.