"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Cool chicks are still out there... Even older ones..

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So i met this 27 year old girl. Making her my plate #4, I think. Wait 5, actually.

Didn't expect much (i never do anymore) but she turned out pretty cool.

-Doesn't wanna get married anytime soon.
-Doesn't wanna pop out kids ASAP.
-Didn't interview me or try to figure me out and categorize me.
-Pretty HSE - doesn't need validation or anything like that, very confident.
-Not materialistic, but damn classy.

Best of all, she is a hot little Latina with a cute accent and like super spunky.

She's gonna make a good plate. Im still not really expecting anything though. Seriously the best thing to do - no expectations, just fun.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sounds awesome.

I hope this turns into something great for you but obviously time will if her coolness is real and not just a front.

Good luck!
 

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Don't stop spinning the other 4.
 

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Good for you man! :D

Truely cool chicks are hard to find. Like ones you'd hang with if they were dudes.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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its just good to know, because I swear, every woman over 23-24 that I meet is hellbent on getting married and popping out kids within like a year or two... SOOOOO annoying.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Don't stop spinning the other 4.

hahaha no way..

in reality, my career/business is always my top plate anyway.. Women are just for fun.

Hell, I am working on getting close to this other girl we sometimes go out with.. she'd make a fun addition too.
 

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Egoist said:
its just good to know, because I swear, every woman over 23-24 that I meet is hellbent on getting married and popping out kids within like a year or two... SOOOOO annoying.
I heard this chick up at the community college here one time who was 28 telling a friend "I need to hurry up and have a kid girl- my clocks ticking" and I am thinking "what the **** are YOU smoking? you're 28". I mean if she was over 35 I'd understand but come on.
 

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sparky0000 said:
For your information, a 28 year old woman should be thinking about having kids. Her clock is ticking and she has only a limited time to find someone, fall in love, get married, and get pregnant. I am sure many of you don't work in that order, but most of the world still thinks that is the order in which you go.

Remember, once a woman hits 35 she is usually a third of the fertile as she was in her late 20's.
http://depts.washington.edu/obgyn/CalendarFiles/ContentFiles/KUOW2-4-04Weekday.pdf#search='getting%20pregnant%20women%20chances%20start%20to%20drop%20thirty'

It basically comes down to the fact that females are on earth to have babies and take care of boys like myself. All the pretty girls I know agree with me on this.

My advice to you boys is simple. If you don't want a child simply don't date older females.

uhmm.. ugh... ok, "boy" :down:
 

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Amusing, Egoist gives Sparky000 sarcasm. Actually (to assist Sparky with his thinking processes), the logical thing, if you don't want kids, is to date a woman too old to have them. But that of course has some self evident drawbacks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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