"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So i met this 27 year old girl. Making her my plate #4, I think. Wait 5, actually.

Didn't expect much (i never do anymore) but she turned out pretty cool.

-Doesn't wanna get married anytime soon.
-Doesn't wanna pop out kids ASAP.
-Didn't interview me or try to figure me out and categorize me.
-Pretty HSE - doesn't need validation or anything like that, very confident.
-Not materialistic, but damn classy.

Best of all, she is a hot little Latina with a cute accent and like super spunky.

She's gonna make a good plate. Im still not really expecting anything though. Seriously the best thing to do - no expectations, just fun.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sounds awesome.

I hope this turns into something great for you but obviously time will if her coolness is real and not just a front.

Good luck!
 

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Don't stop spinning the other 4.
 

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Good for you man! :D

Truely cool chicks are hard to find. Like ones you'd hang with if they were dudes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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its just good to know, because I swear, every woman over 23-24 that I meet is hellbent on getting married and popping out kids within like a year or two... SOOOOO annoying.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
Don't stop spinning the other 4.

hahaha no way..

in reality, my career/business is always my top plate anyway.. Women are just for fun.

Hell, I am working on getting close to this other girl we sometimes go out with.. she'd make a fun addition too.
 

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Egoist said:
its just good to know, because I swear, every woman over 23-24 that I meet is hellbent on getting married and popping out kids within like a year or two... SOOOOO annoying.
I heard this chick up at the community college here one time who was 28 telling a friend "I need to hurry up and have a kid girl- my clocks ticking" and I am thinking "what the **** are YOU smoking? you're 28". I mean if she was over 35 I'd understand but come on.
 

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sparky0000 said:
For your information, a 28 year old woman should be thinking about having kids. Her clock is ticking and she has only a limited time to find someone, fall in love, get married, and get pregnant. I am sure many of you don't work in that order, but most of the world still thinks that is the order in which you go.

Remember, once a woman hits 35 she is usually a third of the fertile as she was in her late 20's.
http://depts.washington.edu/obgyn/CalendarFiles/ContentFiles/KUOW2-4-04Weekday.pdf#search='getting%20pregnant%20women%20chances%20start%20to%20drop%20thirty'

It basically comes down to the fact that females are on earth to have babies and take care of boys like myself. All the pretty girls I know agree with me on this.

My advice to you boys is simple. If you don't want a child simply don't date older females.

uhmm.. ugh... ok, "boy" :down:
 

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Amusing, Egoist gives Sparky000 sarcasm. Actually (to assist Sparky with his thinking processes), the logical thing, if you don't want kids, is to date a woman too old to have them. But that of course has some self evident drawbacks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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