pyros
Master Don Juan
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So I met this 24 years old chick on FB. I send her a wink, she send one back, I messaged her, she replied...etc.
After we talked for a while I suggested to go for a coffee to meet her in person sometime.
She agreed but told me that "she was going on holidays next week, so she did not have much time". I said fine.
The next day she messaged me to ask me how I was, and to tell me if I wanted to meet her that night. She sent this at 20:00, I read her message at 22:00, but I was going to a party out of town so I told her that and she replied at 01:00 that it was a pity.
Anyway, the next day I message her, we talk for a bit and I tell her to go have a drink sometime this week. She is wishy-washy and says:
her: "I dont have much time now, why dont we meet after I come back from my holidays (two weeks)"
me: "Im not sure about that. We can meet sometime this week, or if you dont feel like it, we just go different ways, no problem"
her: "ok, we can meet tomorrow"
me: "alright"
Then she wanted me to send her pics of myself, cause she said that I only have two public pictures on fb without any filters etc.
I tell her the same, so she sends me one pic, and I send her two pics.
She tests me a bit and says that I look normal, kind of cute, but average.
I say to her thanks for keeping my ego under control. She laughs.
She tells me that she met a guy once from FB and that he lied to her, he was much older, and did not look like in his pics. I assure her I am just like in the pics.
I tell her that I just want to see her in person for 10 minutes and see if she's not a weirdo or something, and that we could meet some other day to grab a drink and have a proper date if everything is ok. She says, again, that maybe its a better idea to meet some other time. I say fine, but I may not be available some other day.
She says that I look kind of ****y, and that she doesnt like ****y guys.
Then she tells me that if we're meeting for 10 minutes she would rather see me some other time, cause she doesnt want to get dressed etc just for that. (wtf?)
I tell her that we can grab a coffee and hang out for a while if she prefers that; she agrees.
So, the thing is, we're meeting today at 20:00 but...as I wrote in my title, I has cost more than expected to get her out. On the right hand I understand her cause we've never seen in other in person, but on the left hand I think that she is not that interested and could even flake last minute, and that I should have nexted her.
Thoughts?
P.S.
With other chicks from online it has been easier to get them out, but I did not want to next her too soon.
After we talked for a while I suggested to go for a coffee to meet her in person sometime.
She agreed but told me that "she was going on holidays next week, so she did not have much time". I said fine.
The next day she messaged me to ask me how I was, and to tell me if I wanted to meet her that night. She sent this at 20:00, I read her message at 22:00, but I was going to a party out of town so I told her that and she replied at 01:00 that it was a pity.
Anyway, the next day I message her, we talk for a bit and I tell her to go have a drink sometime this week. She is wishy-washy and says:
her: "I dont have much time now, why dont we meet after I come back from my holidays (two weeks)"
me: "Im not sure about that. We can meet sometime this week, or if you dont feel like it, we just go different ways, no problem"
her: "ok, we can meet tomorrow"
me: "alright"
Then she wanted me to send her pics of myself, cause she said that I only have two public pictures on fb without any filters etc.
I tell her the same, so she sends me one pic, and I send her two pics.
She tests me a bit and says that I look normal, kind of cute, but average.
I say to her thanks for keeping my ego under control. She laughs.
She tells me that she met a guy once from FB and that he lied to her, he was much older, and did not look like in his pics. I assure her I am just like in the pics.
I tell her that I just want to see her in person for 10 minutes and see if she's not a weirdo or something, and that we could meet some other day to grab a drink and have a proper date if everything is ok. She says, again, that maybe its a better idea to meet some other time. I say fine, but I may not be available some other day.
She says that I look kind of ****y, and that she doesnt like ****y guys.
Then she tells me that if we're meeting for 10 minutes she would rather see me some other time, cause she doesnt want to get dressed etc just for that. (wtf?)
I tell her that we can grab a coffee and hang out for a while if she prefers that; she agrees.
So, the thing is, we're meeting today at 20:00 but...as I wrote in my title, I has cost more than expected to get her out. On the right hand I understand her cause we've never seen in other in person, but on the left hand I think that she is not that interested and could even flake last minute, and that I should have nexted her.
Thoughts?
P.S.
With other chicks from online it has been easier to get them out, but I did not want to next her too soon.
