"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Convervatively vs. provocatively dressed women: How do YOU react?

Masculinity

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I was out with some friends on July 4th and noticed numerous women dressed in very revealing clothing. I am talking about shorts that show butt folds and go up the crack in addition to tops showing the bra and their abdominal area. Time after time, I am immediately turned off by these women. Don't get me wrong, I would still lay them. However, I see these characteristics as immediate red flags. I tend to go for the women dressed in normal shorts and tops or the ones wearing long skirts and conservative clothing.

Needless to say, these preferences lead me to a certain type of women: the one's that tend to invest in one guy at a time, aren't attention vvhores or attached to their phones, and overall higher quality women who have had few sex partners (or so they claim).

What are your experiences with these completely different types of women?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BetterCallSaul

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Yeah I understand man. Plenty of hot tail out there and sure I'd bang them too, but don't go beyond that.

It's one thing if a hot girl dresses sexy like that in general, it's something completely different it a hot girl dresses sexy for you.
 

Who Dares Win

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I subconsciously find myself treating those women like slvts, even calling them names and making it clear my opinion about them.

On the other side when it comes of women dressed with neutral or conservative clothes it comes natural to me to be polite and respectfull toward them.

Call me sexist if you want but I believe women who dont respect their femininity are worth such treatment.
 

Young OG

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When I see a chick wearing practically nothing, I immediately think in my head, she's a slvt. I feel that women that dress like that are slvts, liars, cheaters, and conceited. When a women is conceited, it's a huge turn off for me. These are the ones you want to bang but thats it. No ltr or marriage.

When I see a cutie not showing to much skin, I usually assume she is a decent human being and could be a nice girl. These are the ones you want to have a ltr or marriage with. Well for me, no marriage lol...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YawataNoKami

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“The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a wh0re!" Which is true, Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't even forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is fvcking confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a wh0re. But you are wearing a wh0re's uniform.”


― Dave Chappelle
 

The_411

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Ultimately it's all attention whoring. The key is to find women who dress stylishly and understand what works for them and what doesn't. Sometimes women like to show a potential suitor that they got the physical goods but as we know there's also a great chance they lack other aspects to make suitable long term partners.
 
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