"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Convervatively vs. provocatively dressed women: How do YOU react?

Masculinity

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I was out with some friends on July 4th and noticed numerous women dressed in very revealing clothing. I am talking about shorts that show butt folds and go up the crack in addition to tops showing the bra and their abdominal area. Time after time, I am immediately turned off by these women. Don't get me wrong, I would still lay them. However, I see these characteristics as immediate red flags. I tend to go for the women dressed in normal shorts and tops or the ones wearing long skirts and conservative clothing.

Needless to say, these preferences lead me to a certain type of women: the one's that tend to invest in one guy at a time, aren't attention vvhores or attached to their phones, and overall higher quality women who have had few sex partners (or so they claim).

What are your experiences with these completely different types of women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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BetterCallSaul

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Yeah I understand man. Plenty of hot tail out there and sure I'd bang them too, but don't go beyond that.

It's one thing if a hot girl dresses sexy like that in general, it's something completely different it a hot girl dresses sexy for you.
 

Who Dares Win

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I subconsciously find myself treating those women like slvts, even calling them names and making it clear my opinion about them.

On the other side when it comes of women dressed with neutral or conservative clothes it comes natural to me to be polite and respectfull toward them.

Call me sexist if you want but I believe women who dont respect their femininity are worth such treatment.
 

Young OG

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When I see a chick wearing practically nothing, I immediately think in my head, she's a slvt. I feel that women that dress like that are slvts, liars, cheaters, and conceited. When a women is conceited, it's a huge turn off for me. These are the ones you want to bang but thats it. No ltr or marriage.

When I see a cutie not showing to much skin, I usually assume she is a decent human being and could be a nice girl. These are the ones you want to have a ltr or marriage with. Well for me, no marriage lol...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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YawataNoKami

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“The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a wh0re!" Which is true, Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't even forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is fvcking confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a wh0re. But you are wearing a wh0re's uniform.”


― Dave Chappelle
 

The_411

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Ultimately it's all attention whoring. The key is to find women who dress stylishly and understand what works for them and what doesn't. Sometimes women like to show a potential suitor that they got the physical goods but as we know there's also a great chance they lack other aspects to make suitable long term partners.
 
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