"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Convervatively vs. provocatively dressed women: How do YOU react?

Masculinity

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I was out with some friends on July 4th and noticed numerous women dressed in very revealing clothing. I am talking about shorts that show butt folds and go up the crack in addition to tops showing the bra and their abdominal area. Time after time, I am immediately turned off by these women. Don't get me wrong, I would still lay them. However, I see these characteristics as immediate red flags. I tend to go for the women dressed in normal shorts and tops or the ones wearing long skirts and conservative clothing.

Needless to say, these preferences lead me to a certain type of women: the one's that tend to invest in one guy at a time, aren't attention vvhores or attached to their phones, and overall higher quality women who have had few sex partners (or so they claim).

What are your experiences with these completely different types of women?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BetterCallSaul

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Yeah I understand man. Plenty of hot tail out there and sure I'd bang them too, but don't go beyond that.

It's one thing if a hot girl dresses sexy like that in general, it's something completely different it a hot girl dresses sexy for you.
 

Who Dares Win

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I subconsciously find myself treating those women like slvts, even calling them names and making it clear my opinion about them.

On the other side when it comes of women dressed with neutral or conservative clothes it comes natural to me to be polite and respectfull toward them.

Call me sexist if you want but I believe women who dont respect their femininity are worth such treatment.
 

Young OG

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When I see a chick wearing practically nothing, I immediately think in my head, she's a slvt. I feel that women that dress like that are slvts, liars, cheaters, and conceited. When a women is conceited, it's a huge turn off for me. These are the ones you want to bang but thats it. No ltr or marriage.

When I see a cutie not showing to much skin, I usually assume she is a decent human being and could be a nice girl. These are the ones you want to have a ltr or marriage with. Well for me, no marriage lol...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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YawataNoKami

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“The girl says "Oh uh-uh, wait a minute! Wait a minute! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a wh0re!" Which is true, Gentlemen, that is true. Just because they dress a certain way doesn't mean they are a certain way. Don't even forget it. But ladies, you must understand that is fvcking confusing. It just is. Now that would be like me, Dave Chappelle, the comedian, walking down the street in a cop uniform. Somebody might run up on me saying, "Oh, thank God. Officer, help us! Come on. They're over here. Help us!" "Oh-hoh! Just because I'm dressed this way does not make me a police officer!" See what I mean? All right, ladies, fine. You are not a wh0re. But you are wearing a wh0re's uniform.”


― Dave Chappelle
 

The_411

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Ultimately it's all attention whoring. The key is to find women who dress stylishly and understand what works for them and what doesn't. Sometimes women like to show a potential suitor that they got the physical goods but as we know there's also a great chance they lack other aspects to make suitable long term partners.
 
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