"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Converting an ex into a booty call :)

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So what you guys think?

What is the best way of doing this?

Thing is last time we talked, it was an argument lol...but nevertheless we both love ****ing each other.

So I figured I might text or call her late night next week sometime and just say, wanna come over? If not, **** it at least I tried.

For the record, I am banging a few other women but godamn, I have a huge craving to **** her brains out.

Should I be blunt or more subtle when talking to her. Also is texting a better option?

Im not new to getting booty calls but its a bit different with an ex.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What's behind the craving?
 
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as long as you're not getting your feelings involved. You have to think what the reasons was that you broke up. For instance I broke up with a girl years ago and then said if we could still be sexual partners and she took it as an insult and she had every reason too. I was thinking with my di** instead of my head. So if its cool with you both then yes, Ive converted ex's into booty calls before but at some point it stops.
 
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I'd avoid it, to be honest.

I've had this opportunity with my ex, the one before her and the one before that, but I'm not doing it. It would be a step backwards.

Meeting new women is the way foward.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dude, if you have a hard time ****ing a girl, you've already ****ed, your g ame needs serious work..

****ing a girl you've ****ed should be easy... ****ing a girl you've DAted should be and is cake..

Just call her over and.. **** her.. I mean it really is that simple.
 
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Originally posted by pimpdatass
Human nature I guess....now that I'm not boinking it, I want it! When I was..I didn't lol.
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Seems as if she has some type of control over you. Would it be so bad to be able to walk away? Cravings are nothing but the symptom of a loss of control.
 
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