"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Converting an ex into a booty call :)

pimpdatass

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So what you guys think?

What is the best way of doing this?

Thing is last time we talked, it was an argument lol...but nevertheless we both love ****ing each other.

So I figured I might text or call her late night next week sometime and just say, wanna come over? If not, **** it at least I tried.

For the record, I am banging a few other women but godamn, I have a huge craving to **** her brains out.

Should I be blunt or more subtle when talking to her. Also is texting a better option?

Im not new to getting booty calls but its a bit different with an ex.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What's behind the craving?
 

SeldomSeen

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RE:

as long as you're not getting your feelings involved. You have to think what the reasons was that you broke up. For instance I broke up with a girl years ago and then said if we could still be sexual partners and she took it as an insult and she had every reason too. I was thinking with my di** instead of my head. So if its cool with you both then yes, Ive converted ex's into booty calls before but at some point it stops.
 

aftershock

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I'd avoid it, to be honest.

I've had this opportunity with my ex, the one before her and the one before that, but I'm not doing it. It would be a step backwards.

Meeting new women is the way foward.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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backbreaker

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dude, if you have a hard time ****ing a girl, you've already ****ed, your g ame needs serious work..

****ing a girl you've ****ed should be easy... ****ing a girl you've DAted should be and is cake..

Just call her over and.. **** her.. I mean it really is that simple.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by pimpdatass
Human nature I guess....now that I'm not boinking it, I want it! When I was..I didn't lol.
Seems as if she has some type of control over you. Would it be so bad to be able to walk away? Cravings are nothing but the symptom of a loss of control.
 
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