"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Converting an ex into a booty call :)

pimpdatass

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So what you guys think?

What is the best way of doing this?

Thing is last time we talked, it was an argument lol...but nevertheless we both love ****ing each other.

So I figured I might text or call her late night next week sometime and just say, wanna come over? If not, **** it at least I tried.

For the record, I am banging a few other women but godamn, I have a huge craving to **** her brains out.

Should I be blunt or more subtle when talking to her. Also is texting a better option?

Im not new to getting booty calls but its a bit different with an ex.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What's behind the craving?
 

SeldomSeen

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RE:

as long as you're not getting your feelings involved. You have to think what the reasons was that you broke up. For instance I broke up with a girl years ago and then said if we could still be sexual partners and she took it as an insult and she had every reason too. I was thinking with my di** instead of my head. So if its cool with you both then yes, Ive converted ex's into booty calls before but at some point it stops.
 

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I'd avoid it, to be honest.

I've had this opportunity with my ex, the one before her and the one before that, but I'm not doing it. It would be a step backwards.

Meeting new women is the way foward.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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backbreaker

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dude, if you have a hard time ****ing a girl, you've already ****ed, your g ame needs serious work..

****ing a girl you've ****ed should be easy... ****ing a girl you've DAted should be and is cake..

Just call her over and.. **** her.. I mean it really is that simple.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by pimpdatass
Human nature I guess....now that I'm not boinking it, I want it! When I was..I didn't lol.
Seems as if she has some type of control over you. Would it be so bad to be able to walk away? Cravings are nothing but the symptom of a loss of control.
 
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