Ok.....I'm living in Melbourne, Australia and the good thing about Melbourne is you get the best chicks from both worlds....Caucasians and Asians!! However whenever I try to flirt with a hot Asian chick, there is a chance of her not speaking good English because obviously she wasn't born in Australia. This makes it difficult because of the language barrier and would lead to misunderstandings....What would you guys do in a situation like this?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Conversing with a girl who can't speak good English...
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- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
I had a similar problem with a mexican girl, who spoke with a heavy accent. Like people suggested to me, I will suggest that you just use them for practice. If you like the girl and things work out, fine. If not, who cares.
The link to that date I had with her is here....
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=51566
The link to that date I had with her is here....
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=51566
Well... I kinda treat a bad accent like a personality trait. One that I don't like about a person. If I can't stand talking to her for half an hour because of bad miscommunications, I would just move on. I don't think I could be in a happy relationship with someone who doesn't understand me, no matter how hot they are.
Vertz
New Member
hey! dont forget the greek chicks! Melbourne has a lot of greeks, second highest populace of greeks in the world after athens... err nice little bit of trivia. I think flirting with someone that doesn't understand what your saying could be a very good ground for practicing non verbal flirting, relying more heavily on kino etc. oh yeah: Carn the ***BOMBERS ***
Vertz
Vertz
Now that's what I'm talking about.....kino was what I had in mind. I'm not looking for a serious r/s but was just thinking how would take a challenge like that. Thanks for the replies guys.
Vertz you're right. Greek girls are hot too. Thankfully, most of them speak proper English
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Vertz you're right. Greek girls are hot too. Thankfully, most of them speak proper English
."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
showtime17
Don Juan
Worse problem is pimping in a language you dont speak as a native. I live in Montreal and over here u can pretty much use english or french, but sometimes u do run into the chicks that only speak french and so when i try to pimp, i start speaking french and then suddenly cant think of how to say a particular word in french...game over....end the conversation in midsentence, look like a fool trying to think of the word and using all kinds of hands gesticulation...lol
I'd stop speaking English.. haha ^^
Seriously though, it's not really worth doing as anything more than practice.. don't know about you guys, but I'm looking for a LTR in the end, and a relationship where you can't communicate doesn't work.