Ok.....I'm living in Melbourne, Australia and the good thing about Melbourne is you get the best chicks from both worlds....Caucasians and Asians!! However whenever I try to flirt with a hot Asian chick, there is a chance of her not speaking good English because obviously she wasn't born in Australia. This makes it difficult because of the language barrier and would lead to misunderstandings....What would you guys do in a situation like this?
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Conversing with a girl who can't speak good English...
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rgeere
Master Don Juan
I had a similar problem with a mexican girl, who spoke with a heavy accent. Like people suggested to me, I will suggest that you just use them for practice. If you like the girl and things work out, fine. If not, who cares.
The link to that date I had with her is here....
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=51566
The link to that date I had with her is here....
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=51566
Well... I kinda treat a bad accent like a personality trait. One that I don't like about a person. If I can't stand talking to her for half an hour because of bad miscommunications, I would just move on. I don't think I could be in a happy relationship with someone who doesn't understand me, no matter how hot they are.
Vertz
New Member
hey! dont forget the greek chicks! Melbourne has a lot of greeks, second highest populace of greeks in the world after athens... err nice little bit of trivia. I think flirting with someone that doesn't understand what your saying could be a very good ground for practicing non verbal flirting, relying more heavily on kino etc. oh yeah: Carn the ***BOMBERS ***
Vertz
Vertz
Now that's what I'm talking about.....kino was what I had in mind. I'm not looking for a serious r/s but was just thinking how would take a challenge like that. Thanks for the replies guys.
Vertz you're right. Greek girls are hot too. Thankfully, most of them speak proper English
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Vertz you're right. Greek girls are hot too. Thankfully, most of them speak proper English
."I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
showtime17
Don Juan
Worse problem is pimping in a language you dont speak as a native. I live in Montreal and over here u can pretty much use english or french, but sometimes u do run into the chicks that only speak french and so when i try to pimp, i start speaking french and then suddenly cant think of how to say a particular word in french...game over....end the conversation in midsentence, look like a fool trying to think of the word and using all kinds of hands gesticulation...lol
I'd stop speaking English.. haha ^^
Seriously though, it's not really worth doing as anything more than practice.. don't know about you guys, but I'm looking for a LTR in the end, and a relationship where you can't communicate doesn't work.