"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Prestige

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Alright.. heres the problem(s)

1) Apparently, I have the 'predatory' look.. whatever the **** that means.. I dont even know so how can I fix it? anyone know what this 'look' is and how to appear differently?

2) I graduated High School last year, and have been working full-time to save money for College (which im attending in September).. the problem here is, I dont get out much at all because all I do is work, work-out and sleep. I havent really met anyone new since HS and I find it really hard to talk to girls that are my age (19) and relate to them, sound mature and get them attracted to me since the last time I was always around girls was HS and the girls were younger.

anybody got any ideas for me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Furax

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anything, dont get yourself worried about thinking up a good convo. Ask girls what courses theyre doing if they enjoy it etc, what good bars they know of, what are the best places to live as your thinking about moving. Just keep it simple and dont start quizzing her if she has a bf etc.
 

Prestige

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thanx furax...care to go into any more detail though? liek i said, i cannot wait for college to start in the fall and i wanna get a head start on everything by leanring everything now so its second nature.. actually, not even second nature..it is 'me' by the time i get there..

i just have no luck with women my age or older..

EDIT: and what is with the whole 'predatory' look bull****?
 

kRisk

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I think this 'predatory' look has something to do with your attitude and looks.
I used to get the same kind of comments from women.

I tend to look very openly to any hot chick like I've just smelled my prey so try to avoid that.. Atleast when there's women around. :D ..
 
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