"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prestige

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Alright.. heres the problem(s)

1) Apparently, I have the 'predatory' look.. whatever the **** that means.. I dont even know so how can I fix it? anyone know what this 'look' is and how to appear differently?

2) I graduated High School last year, and have been working full-time to save money for College (which im attending in September).. the problem here is, I dont get out much at all because all I do is work, work-out and sleep. I havent really met anyone new since HS and I find it really hard to talk to girls that are my age (19) and relate to them, sound mature and get them attracted to me since the last time I was always around girls was HS and the girls were younger.

anybody got any ideas for me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Furax

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anything, dont get yourself worried about thinking up a good convo. Ask girls what courses theyre doing if they enjoy it etc, what good bars they know of, what are the best places to live as your thinking about moving. Just keep it simple and dont start quizzing her if she has a bf etc.
 
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thanx furax...care to go into any more detail though? liek i said, i cannot wait for college to start in the fall and i wanna get a head start on everything by leanring everything now so its second nature.. actually, not even second nature..it is 'me' by the time i get there..

i just have no luck with women my age or older..

EDIT: and what is with the whole 'predatory' look bull****?
 
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I think this 'predatory' look has something to do with your attitude and looks.
I used to get the same kind of comments from women.

I tend to look very openly to any hot chick like I've just smelled my prey so try to avoid that.. Atleast when there's women around. :D ..
 
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