"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Prestige

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Alright.. heres the problem(s)

1) Apparently, I have the 'predatory' look.. whatever the **** that means.. I dont even know so how can I fix it? anyone know what this 'look' is and how to appear differently?

2) I graduated High School last year, and have been working full-time to save money for College (which im attending in September).. the problem here is, I dont get out much at all because all I do is work, work-out and sleep. I havent really met anyone new since HS and I find it really hard to talk to girls that are my age (19) and relate to them, sound mature and get them attracted to me since the last time I was always around girls was HS and the girls were younger.

anybody got any ideas for me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Furax

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anything, dont get yourself worried about thinking up a good convo. Ask girls what courses theyre doing if they enjoy it etc, what good bars they know of, what are the best places to live as your thinking about moving. Just keep it simple and dont start quizzing her if she has a bf etc.
 

Prestige

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thanx furax...care to go into any more detail though? liek i said, i cannot wait for college to start in the fall and i wanna get a head start on everything by leanring everything now so its second nature.. actually, not even second nature..it is 'me' by the time i get there..

i just have no luck with women my age or older..

EDIT: and what is with the whole 'predatory' look bull****?
 

kRisk

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I think this 'predatory' look has something to do with your attitude and looks.
I used to get the same kind of comments from women.

I tend to look very openly to any hot chick like I've just smelled my prey so try to avoid that.. Atleast when there's women around. :D ..
 
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