"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheFlyingMan

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Guys I can't find material or author that is sorta good for this...

I'm having no problems approaching, establishing higher value, etc. I have conversations, I throw in a bit of C+F...but what's next?

How do I go about actually building attraction, turning her into some girl that dreams about me all the time? C+F makes me fun to be with, makes her curious about me, I do a few palm readings, face readings etc, again it just sort of makes me the entertainer.

How do I bridge this? How do I turn her initial interest - I've stood out amongst all the other guys - how do I turn her into A) a possible LTR if I like her B) a lay?

Seems that a lot of methods just sort of jump from this stuff into the lay. But I don't feel like it's ready. This is more for a situation where we're at a party or at a social gathering.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AudiTy

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IMO Juggler is your man for conversation skills.

-AudiTy =o
 

Tomatoes

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If you have the convo sussed....You can build a good rapport with her.

The is 2 things you need to keep in mind:

1) Stay out that icky friendzone. Dont build the "wrong" kind of relationship.

2) KINO KINO KINO. This is the perfect bridge.....Kino is a must if you want to f close the girl. You have starterd that with the palm readings. Brushing the palm side of her hand is an early form of kino. Kiss close is also vital at early stage.




Note: I dont know if you ment to put LTR first or if its just me reading it wrong but you shud always get a shag before you commit. You have to know you getting it good.
 

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If you want her chasing and all that crap you should use cat theory, and other things that get girls chasing you. After inital attraction you should be quailfying and then building some good rapport.
 

TheFlyingMan

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thanks guys!
Hmm I guess I'm not looking for ONSes, I had a few lucky ones and they didn't mean much to me. Sure I got respect from the boys but it don't mean much anymore. True though that I should get a shag b4 I commit...remember some horror stories from my AFC days...shudder...

can you give me some good examples of rapport building? I can sort of do it by accident, but it takes too long that way, what's a good example of building it real quick?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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