“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheFlyingMan

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Guys I can't find material or author that is sorta good for this...

I'm having no problems approaching, establishing higher value, etc. I have conversations, I throw in a bit of C+F...but what's next?

How do I go about actually building attraction, turning her into some girl that dreams about me all the time? C+F makes me fun to be with, makes her curious about me, I do a few palm readings, face readings etc, again it just sort of makes me the entertainer.

How do I bridge this? How do I turn her initial interest - I've stood out amongst all the other guys - how do I turn her into A) a possible LTR if I like her B) a lay?

Seems that a lot of methods just sort of jump from this stuff into the lay. But I don't feel like it's ready. This is more for a situation where we're at a party or at a social gathering.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AudiTy

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IMO Juggler is your man for conversation skills.

-AudiTy =o
 

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If you have the convo sussed....You can build a good rapport with her.

The is 2 things you need to keep in mind:

1) Stay out that icky friendzone. Dont build the "wrong" kind of relationship.

2) KINO KINO KINO. This is the perfect bridge.....Kino is a must if you want to f close the girl. You have starterd that with the palm readings. Brushing the palm side of her hand is an early form of kino. Kiss close is also vital at early stage.




Note: I dont know if you ment to put LTR first or if its just me reading it wrong but you shud always get a shag before you commit. You have to know you getting it good.
 

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If you want her chasing and all that crap you should use cat theory, and other things that get girls chasing you. After inital attraction you should be quailfying and then building some good rapport.
 

TheFlyingMan

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thanks guys!
Hmm I guess I'm not looking for ONSes, I had a few lucky ones and they didn't mean much to me. Sure I got respect from the boys but it don't mean much anymore. True though that I should get a shag b4 I commit...remember some horror stories from my AFC days...shudder...

can you give me some good examples of rapport building? I can sort of do it by accident, but it takes too long that way, what's a good example of building it real quick?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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