MacAvoy
Banned
That makes so much sense, I've never thought of it that way before.joekerr31 said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
controlling my emotions
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Hey joekerr, they wouldn't let me give you anymore rep points but that advice to friv was on point.
exercising, eating right, surrounding positive people in your life, and ignoring the media is the cure to most problems in the world. This eliminates 9/10 of the crap out of your body.
exercising, eating right, surrounding positive people in your life, and ignoring the media is the cure to most problems in the world. This eliminates 9/10 of the crap out of your body.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Friv, these two things you said don't go together.
she is a good mom...she wont let me see him.
If she was such a great mother, then she wouldn't deny her son access to his father because of her relationship problems. None of us are perfect, but her using him as a pawn is not fair, and you have every right to be upset about it. It sucks, and it happens to a lot of guys. It's just the way things are these days, but it's still better than having a pvssy!
Keep your head up, man. It will get better.
she is a good mom...she wont let me see him.
If she was such a great mother, then she wouldn't deny her son access to his father because of her relationship problems. None of us are perfect, but her using him as a pawn is not fair, and you have every right to be upset about it. It sucks, and it happens to a lot of guys. It's just the way things are these days, but it's still better than having a pvssy!
Keep your head up, man. It will get better.
I agree and this is the disagreement I have with Friv, he excuses and defends all female behavior even when it's clear as day bad and he's the "victim" of it. And if someone is critical of female behavior he says they're bitter and can't get women. I just think he's young and as long as he gets puss that's all that matters and everything's okey dokey.Bible_Belt said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.