MacAvoy
Banned
That makes so much sense, I've never thought of it that way before.joekerr31 said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
controlling my emotions
- Thread starter frivolousz21
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Hey joekerr, they wouldn't let me give you anymore rep points but that advice to friv was on point.
exercising, eating right, surrounding positive people in your life, and ignoring the media is the cure to most problems in the world. This eliminates 9/10 of the crap out of your body.
exercising, eating right, surrounding positive people in your life, and ignoring the media is the cure to most problems in the world. This eliminates 9/10 of the crap out of your body.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Friv, these two things you said don't go together.
she is a good mom...she wont let me see him.
If she was such a great mother, then she wouldn't deny her son access to his father because of her relationship problems. None of us are perfect, but her using him as a pawn is not fair, and you have every right to be upset about it. It sucks, and it happens to a lot of guys. It's just the way things are these days, but it's still better than having a pvssy!
Keep your head up, man. It will get better.
she is a good mom...she wont let me see him.
If she was such a great mother, then she wouldn't deny her son access to his father because of her relationship problems. None of us are perfect, but her using him as a pawn is not fair, and you have every right to be upset about it. It sucks, and it happens to a lot of guys. It's just the way things are these days, but it's still better than having a pvssy!
Keep your head up, man. It will get better.
I agree and this is the disagreement I have with Friv, he excuses and defends all female behavior even when it's clear as day bad and he's the "victim" of it. And if someone is critical of female behavior he says they're bitter and can't get women. I just think he's young and as long as he gets puss that's all that matters and everything's okey dokey.Bible_Belt said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.