Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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controlling my emotions

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thefonz

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Hey joekerr, they wouldn't let me give you anymore rep points but that advice to friv was on point.

exercising, eating right, surrounding positive people in your life, and ignoring the media is the cure to most problems in the world. This eliminates 9/10 of the crap out of your body.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I respect that you realize that if she's a good mother, a child needs to spend the first 7 years of his life with his mother.
Is that long enough to become indoctrinated to serve females?
 

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Friv, these two things you said don't go together.

she is a good mom...she wont let me see him.

If she was such a great mother, then she wouldn't deny her son access to his father because of her relationship problems. None of us are perfect, but her using him as a pawn is not fair, and you have every right to be upset about it. It sucks, and it happens to a lot of guys. It's just the way things are these days, but it's still better than having a pvssy!

Keep your head up, man. It will get better.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Friv, these two things you said don't go together.

she is a good mom...she wont let me see him.

If she was such a great mother, then she wouldn't deny her son access to his father because of her relationship problems. None of us are perfect, but her using him as a pawn is not fair, and you have every right to be upset about it. It sucks, and it happens to a lot of guys. It's just the way things are these days, but it's still better than having a pvssy!

Keep your head up, man. It will get better.
I agree and this is the disagreement I have with Friv, he excuses and defends all female behavior even when it's clear as day bad and he's the "victim" of it. And if someone is critical of female behavior he says they're bitter and can't get women. I just think he's young and as long as he gets puss that's all that matters and everything's okey dokey.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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