Continuing a convo with a girl cold approaching.

[thelonewolflegend]

Ive been doing cold approaching lately and It helps when I have those nervousness inside only problem I have lately is trying to continue conversation or try to get a girl to talk a lot or much because shes just like responding to me. So what do you guys usually do after you approach hey how you doin my name so and so whats your name??? how do you keep conversation flowing do you just ask questions about her when you approach her or what?

 

[sighsigh]

Yes, you ask a question about her and then build off of there. I think "so where are you heading?" is a good one. You can also comment about an article of clothing on her, and again build off of there.

How long do you think one should keep up a convo while cold approaching before asking for the number?

 

[thelonewolflegend]

Thanks for the advice also another good question.

 

[sighsigh]

How long do you think one should keep up a convo while cold approaching before asking for the number?

Someone want to answer this one?

 

[the_stig]

IMO

You'll either have chemistry, or you won't. Throw out a question and run with it, ex: 'What the heck brings you to the library on such a beautiful summer day?'. Not that hard to keep the conversation rolling at that point.

If it still feels forced and awkward after a minute or two, never be afraid to hit the eject button. Not every approach requires a number close.

If the conversation is going well, chat long enough to built some rapport (few minutes), she'll need to feel comfortable to give up her digits, but take your bow while the conversation is fresh and exciting, as it will leave her wanting more.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Pay attention to the girl and notice things about her - purse, clothes, hair, any little thing that gives you something to talk about.

You've said you're in St Louis, and I've told you to at least pay some attention to Cardinals baseball. Every woman in St Louis is in love with Yadier Molina. His is the most popular jersey for women to wear. They just had a giveaway at the stadium of them, so there are probably 50,000 women walking around St Louis in the same shirt. You could develop a routine just for them when you see the shirt. "Are you Yadi's girlfriend? Is he going to get mad I'm talking to you?" That's an example of tailoring your line and conversation to the situation.