I made a facebook the other day and have make alot of facebook friends (I sent the friend request for most of them). Almost all of them are from my school. I noticed that they have their phone # and aim name posted. Is it ok to contact them threw that? Would it be wierd to call a girl or guy and say "wanna hang out some time"? Or should you talk to them on aim first then call them?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
contacting people threw Facebook you hardly know
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Ignore the phone numbers and get them on your own by asking the girls in real life.
Works much better that way.
Works much better that way.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Unless you're a master at writing and talking with feeling... you want to stay offline as much as possible lol.
Obviously you do not know what Facebook is. For starters, start talking to them threw Facebook and get to know them a little better. However, just make sure that only mild conversation takes place there, and say something such as, "Hey, I don't go on my computer too much these days.. do you have a number I can reach you at?" And you are one step closer to making a girl yours! When you get her phone number, start having a little better conversations (no more than half an hour) and your next step is to plan a "date" with her - it's all about timing.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
We're saying that getting a phone number online shows no balls.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"Almost all of them are from my school."
Good.. why go out of your way to look for people in a different town when you have available girls right next to you?
I really don't care if you want to spend most of your life approaching girls on facebook... You can get used to that if you'd like.
"15 year olds havent even grown balls yet."
And lastly.. I speak for everybody in my grade around the world, saying:
total bull sh!t.
Good.. why go out of your way to look for people in a different town when you have available girls right next to you?
I really don't care if you want to spend most of your life approaching girls on facebook... You can get used to that if you'd like.
"15 year olds havent even grown balls yet."
And lastly.. I speak for everybody in my grade around the world, saying:
total bull sh!t.
AIM is cool if you want, don't call up a girl who has her number posted without saying your going to, it would be really weird and creepy.
Facebook is a great tool for building rapport, you can send random flirty messages every once in a while just to make her miss you. But for attraction it's a terrible idea, better to save that for in person.
By the way, I don't use AIM, I feel it is a complete waste of time, either text, call, or meet in person.
Facebook is a great tool for building rapport, you can send random flirty messages every once in a while just to make her miss you. But for attraction it's a terrible idea, better to save that for in person.
By the way, I don't use AIM, I feel it is a complete waste of time, either text, call, or meet in person.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.