I made a facebook the other day and have make alot of facebook friends (I sent the friend request for most of them). Almost all of them are from my school. I noticed that they have their phone # and aim name posted. Is it ok to contact them threw that? Would it be wierd to call a girl or guy and say "wanna hang out some time"? Or should you talk to them on aim first then call them?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
contacting people threw Facebook you hardly know
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Ignore the phone numbers and get them on your own by asking the girls in real life.
Works much better that way.
Works much better that way.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Unless you're a master at writing and talking with feeling... you want to stay offline as much as possible lol.
Obviously you do not know what Facebook is. For starters, start talking to them threw Facebook and get to know them a little better. However, just make sure that only mild conversation takes place there, and say something such as, "Hey, I don't go on my computer too much these days.. do you have a number I can reach you at?" And you are one step closer to making a girl yours! When you get her phone number, start having a little better conversations (no more than half an hour) and your next step is to plan a "date" with her - it's all about timing.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
We're saying that getting a phone number online shows no balls.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"Almost all of them are from my school."
Good.. why go out of your way to look for people in a different town when you have available girls right next to you?
I really don't care if you want to spend most of your life approaching girls on facebook... You can get used to that if you'd like.
"15 year olds havent even grown balls yet."
And lastly.. I speak for everybody in my grade around the world, saying:
total bull sh!t.
Good.. why go out of your way to look for people in a different town when you have available girls right next to you?
I really don't care if you want to spend most of your life approaching girls on facebook... You can get used to that if you'd like.
"15 year olds havent even grown balls yet."
And lastly.. I speak for everybody in my grade around the world, saying:
total bull sh!t.
AIM is cool if you want, don't call up a girl who has her number posted without saying your going to, it would be really weird and creepy.
Facebook is a great tool for building rapport, you can send random flirty messages every once in a while just to make her miss you. But for attraction it's a terrible idea, better to save that for in person.
By the way, I don't use AIM, I feel it is a complete waste of time, either text, call, or meet in person.
Facebook is a great tool for building rapport, you can send random flirty messages every once in a while just to make her miss you. But for attraction it's a terrible idea, better to save that for in person.
By the way, I don't use AIM, I feel it is a complete waste of time, either text, call, or meet in person.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.