I made a facebook the other day and have make alot of facebook friends (I sent the friend request for most of them). Almost all of them are from my school. I noticed that they have their phone # and aim name posted. Is it ok to contact them threw that? Would it be wierd to call a girl or guy and say "wanna hang out some time"? Or should you talk to them on aim first then call them?
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contacting people threw Facebook you hardly know
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Ignore the phone numbers and get them on your own by asking the girls in real life.
Works much better that way.
Works much better that way.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Unless you're a master at writing and talking with feeling... you want to stay offline as much as possible lol.
Obviously you do not know what Facebook is. For starters, start talking to them threw Facebook and get to know them a little better. However, just make sure that only mild conversation takes place there, and say something such as, "Hey, I don't go on my computer too much these days.. do you have a number I can reach you at?" And you are one step closer to making a girl yours! When you get her phone number, start having a little better conversations (no more than half an hour) and your next step is to plan a "date" with her - it's all about timing.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
We're saying that getting a phone number online shows no balls.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"Almost all of them are from my school."
Good.. why go out of your way to look for people in a different town when you have available girls right next to you?
I really don't care if you want to spend most of your life approaching girls on facebook... You can get used to that if you'd like.
"15 year olds havent even grown balls yet."
And lastly.. I speak for everybody in my grade around the world, saying:
total bull sh!t.
Good.. why go out of your way to look for people in a different town when you have available girls right next to you?
I really don't care if you want to spend most of your life approaching girls on facebook... You can get used to that if you'd like.
"15 year olds havent even grown balls yet."
And lastly.. I speak for everybody in my grade around the world, saying:
total bull sh!t.
AIM is cool if you want, don't call up a girl who has her number posted without saying your going to, it would be really weird and creepy.
Facebook is a great tool for building rapport, you can send random flirty messages every once in a while just to make her miss you. But for attraction it's a terrible idea, better to save that for in person.
By the way, I don't use AIM, I feel it is a complete waste of time, either text, call, or meet in person.
Facebook is a great tool for building rapport, you can send random flirty messages every once in a while just to make her miss you. But for attraction it's a terrible idea, better to save that for in person.
By the way, I don't use AIM, I feel it is a complete waste of time, either text, call, or meet in person.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.