"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Contact or no contact? You tell me.

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Sofomore

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Please help me out with this situation!

I met a very attractive girl tonight, about a 9 on the conservative scale. We met through a female friend that I rarely hang out with (once a month) who she works with. This girl is rockin': nice body, fun, likes to party and is down with my friends. There were multiple signs tonight that she was down to kick it more...don't really have to go into detail. I am fairly out of practice because I have a girlfriend so I did not get her number. Once a DJ you know the signs :yes: . We talked for a while and she said that she would be in town next weekend.

What I would like to know is what would you guys do in this situation? I know she is down to hang out even though she knows I have a girlfriend. The only thing is I do not have her number and rarely hang out with her friend. Should I contact her though facebook or wait until next weekend hoping that she comes into town with her friend? I see the second option as pretty passive since she might not even hang out with her friend.

I definitely saw her interest in me but I made the rookie DJ move of not getting a number. Essentially should I get her number through facebook (super AFC, I know) or wait until next weekend and hope (supidly) that she comes by?

Thanks for your input.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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One thing is for sure. You should bang the **** out of her and not let the fact you have a girlfriend stop you. Good luck.
 
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