"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Contact or no contact? You tell me.

Sofomore

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Please help me out with this situation!

I met a very attractive girl tonight, about a 9 on the conservative scale. We met through a female friend that I rarely hang out with (once a month) who she works with. This girl is rockin': nice body, fun, likes to party and is down with my friends. There were multiple signs tonight that she was down to kick it more...don't really have to go into detail. I am fairly out of practice because I have a girlfriend so I did not get her number. Once a DJ you know the signs :yes: . We talked for a while and she said that she would be in town next weekend.

What I would like to know is what would you guys do in this situation? I know she is down to hang out even though she knows I have a girlfriend. The only thing is I do not have her number and rarely hang out with her friend. Should I contact her though facebook or wait until next weekend hoping that she comes into town with her friend? I see the second option as pretty passive since she might not even hang out with her friend.

I definitely saw her interest in me but I made the rookie DJ move of not getting a number. Essentially should I get her number through facebook (super AFC, I know) or wait until next weekend and hope (supidly) that she comes by?

Thanks for your input.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yo'Mama

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One thing is for sure. You should bang the **** out of her and not let the fact you have a girlfriend stop you. Good luck.
 
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