"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Contact or no contact? You tell me.

Sofomore

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Please help me out with this situation!

I met a very attractive girl tonight, about a 9 on the conservative scale. We met through a female friend that I rarely hang out with (once a month) who she works with. This girl is rockin': nice body, fun, likes to party and is down with my friends. There were multiple signs tonight that she was down to kick it more...don't really have to go into detail. I am fairly out of practice because I have a girlfriend so I did not get her number. Once a DJ you know the signs :yes: . We talked for a while and she said that she would be in town next weekend.

What I would like to know is what would you guys do in this situation? I know she is down to hang out even though she knows I have a girlfriend. The only thing is I do not have her number and rarely hang out with her friend. Should I contact her though facebook or wait until next weekend hoping that she comes into town with her friend? I see the second option as pretty passive since she might not even hang out with her friend.

I definitely saw her interest in me but I made the rookie DJ move of not getting a number. Essentially should I get her number through facebook (super AFC, I know) or wait until next weekend and hope (supidly) that she comes by?

Thanks for your input.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Yo'Mama

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One thing is for sure. You should bang the **** out of her and not let the fact you have a girlfriend stop you. Good luck.
 
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