Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Contact or no contact? You tell me.

Sofomore

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Please help me out with this situation!

I met a very attractive girl tonight, about a 9 on the conservative scale. We met through a female friend that I rarely hang out with (once a month) who she works with. This girl is rockin': nice body, fun, likes to party and is down with my friends. There were multiple signs tonight that she was down to kick it more...don't really have to go into detail. I am fairly out of practice because I have a girlfriend so I did not get her number. Once a DJ you know the signs :yes: . We talked for a while and she said that she would be in town next weekend.

What I would like to know is what would you guys do in this situation? I know she is down to hang out even though she knows I have a girlfriend. The only thing is I do not have her number and rarely hang out with her friend. Should I contact her though facebook or wait until next weekend hoping that she comes into town with her friend? I see the second option as pretty passive since she might not even hang out with her friend.

I definitely saw her interest in me but I made the rookie DJ move of not getting a number. Essentially should I get her number through facebook (super AFC, I know) or wait until next weekend and hope (supidly) that she comes by?

Thanks for your input.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yo'Mama

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One thing is for sure. You should bang the **** out of her and not let the fact you have a girlfriend stop you. Good luck.
 
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