"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Constantly exhausted/tired

silverwex

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Anyone else here ALWAYS tired/fatigued, even during the day?

I get at least 7 hours of sleep a night and my diet is ok.

Maybe its somethiong to do with my anxiety levels?

Any help? Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Depends what you're doing in the day. Personally, if i end up doing nothing, i get more tired than i would if i had run a marathon.
 

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What medicines do you take? Zyrtec & Claritin, along with other antihistamines/decongestants can cause you to be sleepy, even if your diet and sleep patterns are normal...
 

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I suppose ive a touch of GAD (general anxiety disorder) i usually get anxious in situations people wouldnt normally. It sucks! :( Had a bad day today.

Think im paranoid about my looks or something. i just dont know anymore.

No im not taking any medicines.

Thanks for the replies tho guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Saw your other thread on plastic surgery and thought that might be the case.

I started off a bit fvcked up about the way I looked. Half my energy went on what others where thinking about me, worried I'd embarrass myself. Consequentially I'd fvck up.

Then it became a good excuse to become a semi-hermit.

I have/had a huge amount of tension build up in my muscles and spent alot of time feeling very tired.

I'm still a bit this way, however bizzarely I've made huge strides in confidence recently, I can do approaches and C&F with great panash.

Check out a thread on Avpd, this may be relevant too.

Here's some things I have banged into my brain.

There is no point in giving a sh1t what other people think of you.

The only way to make progress is social exposure with the above mindset.

Reduce physical tension through Tia Chi, Qui Gong, yoga combined with general exercise.

There was a thread a while ago on anxiety. Someone recommeded a link to The Lynden Method. I bought the stuff and it helped me alot also. In the UK they also send the CDs and give you a quick call.

It has helped people with very severe social anxiety and may help you.

I suspect feeling tired is one thing, but it's quite another to not do things in life you want to do, but are too fearful to try.

Good luck
 

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some potentials...

too much caffeine, ie several cups of coffee a day...
epstein barr virus? the usual cause of infectious mono?
low thyroid hormone levels?
anemic?
 

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i feel tired too

i work for 8 hrs ( 9:00am-12:00am then 1:30pm-6pm) and after that i feel like going' to sleep and shyt
i feel tired, i can do exercises and shyt, but mentally lazy... i drink often 2 cups of coffe a day...

does anyone know wuts up?
 

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same, sometimes i get around 7-8 hrs of sleep and work part-time along with full time school and was mentally sleepy, sometimes physically tired too.

of course my job is usually me staring off into the comp for the day working on projects.

even with break on. i sleep till noon, sometimes 7 - 10 hrs of sleep and still get to work tired. Of course hitting the gym helps me sleep better, but when i wake up to go to work im still exhausted.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most people let's face it are lethargic and lazy because they have no purpose or goals in life. Sleeping too much can make you tired because it upsets your normal rythms.
 

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ain't it the truth.

everytime i crack open i book to study i get ADD and become tired. lol
 
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