Considering celibacy for a couple months

[captain55]

Just got out of a relationship, Im one of those guys who really can't juggle work, women, the gym, and friends at the same time.

I've hooked up with some fine ass women in the past year but at the end of the day what do I have to show for it? Some memories and fun stories


I'm thinking about stopping dating all together for 3-6 months so I can really focus on my career, getting in great shape, and improving myself. . MY question for you guys is have any of you done this before?

Part of me feels like a woman is required in a man's life for important mental health and I am very prone to depression. But I'm also a realist, Im 22 and need to get my ****ing career together and I know that the time I spend chasing women will just hold me back.

 

[skinnyguy]

Ya I know how you feel. I feel incredibly depressed when I'm not out there hooking up with women. You need to find something to replace sex that makes u happy

 

[Suspens]

If you stop dating, you will start wanking again.

Sorry, there are no alternatives. Video games, drugs, cheap hoes, etc.. You don't want to think about those stuff.

You have a point though. If you manage to push your career forward and become the real thing, the chase will be over or at least easier, since girls will come to you without much effort.

 

[Mike32ct]

I think it's a good idea.

Obviously dry spells are much more difficult at the OP's age than at mine, but it is an opportunity to improve yourself and see that puzz isn't everything.

You can still fap sometimes (unless you are going about this hardcore). But definitely avoid porn.

 

[marmel75]

F that...

You were made to have sex, why deny your urges?

I worked 12 hours a day, worked out like a beast and still had time to put it down...