"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Considered Alpha Male

crossboss

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What kind of things do you need to do? To be considered the Alpha?
Also how do you know where you stand?

Like a mindset like you a the king of the world, and maybe insulting people?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Cruise

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Read Dog Training books. You'll see some strong correlations between the Human Pecking Order and the Animal Pecking Order.

For example, in a litter of puppies, it's said that the Alpha Dog:

- Is trusted by the group to protect them, make the decisions, and provide/feed them.
- Usually gets the most comfortable resting places, gets to eat first, and is much more territorially oriented than most of the others.
- Is playful and upbeat, yet strong and assertive. They display dominant qualities, usually meaning that they get THEIR way, and are willing to put any other dog who challenges that notion, in their place.
- Sometimes could be aggressive
- Is respected by all other peers.


It's not about insulting people, but it's about the willingness and capability to insult people if the NEED arises. Really, it's about self-respect and an intolerance for less than the best in one's life, and not allowing any person or any thing deter self from that.


Anybody else can build on this if needed...
 

paraguayandj

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become a dog ;) just kidding. Read the bible you should get enought shyt out of there
 

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Don't waste your time reading the DJ bible.

If you want to learn how to be an alpha male learn or read about Direct method. (shark, cortez, Woodhaven, etc) That method has the best advice on Bodylanguage, voice projection, and just being a Alpha male in general.

Pm me if you want the link to the Natura game journal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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