"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Considered Alpha Male

crossboss

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What kind of things do you need to do? To be considered the Alpha?
Also how do you know where you stand?

Like a mindset like you a the king of the world, and maybe insulting people?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Cruise

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Read Dog Training books. You'll see some strong correlations between the Human Pecking Order and the Animal Pecking Order.

For example, in a litter of puppies, it's said that the Alpha Dog:

- Is trusted by the group to protect them, make the decisions, and provide/feed them.
- Usually gets the most comfortable resting places, gets to eat first, and is much more territorially oriented than most of the others.
- Is playful and upbeat, yet strong and assertive. They display dominant qualities, usually meaning that they get THEIR way, and are willing to put any other dog who challenges that notion, in their place.
- Sometimes could be aggressive
- Is respected by all other peers.


It's not about insulting people, but it's about the willingness and capability to insult people if the NEED arises. Really, it's about self-respect and an intolerance for less than the best in one's life, and not allowing any person or any thing deter self from that.


Anybody else can build on this if needed...
 

paraguayandj

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become a dog ;) just kidding. Read the bible you should get enought shyt out of there
 

Distant Light

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Don't waste your time reading the DJ bible.

If you want to learn how to be an alpha male learn or read about Direct method. (shark, cortez, Woodhaven, etc) That method has the best advice on Bodylanguage, voice projection, and just being a Alpha male in general.

Pm me if you want the link to the Natura game journal.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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