"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Considered Alpha Male

crossboss

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What kind of things do you need to do? To be considered the Alpha?
Also how do you know where you stand?

Like a mindset like you a the king of the world, and maybe insulting people?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Cruise

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Read Dog Training books. You'll see some strong correlations between the Human Pecking Order and the Animal Pecking Order.

For example, in a litter of puppies, it's said that the Alpha Dog:

- Is trusted by the group to protect them, make the decisions, and provide/feed them.
- Usually gets the most comfortable resting places, gets to eat first, and is much more territorially oriented than most of the others.
- Is playful and upbeat, yet strong and assertive. They display dominant qualities, usually meaning that they get THEIR way, and are willing to put any other dog who challenges that notion, in their place.
- Sometimes could be aggressive
- Is respected by all other peers.


It's not about insulting people, but it's about the willingness and capability to insult people if the NEED arises. Really, it's about self-respect and an intolerance for less than the best in one's life, and not allowing any person or any thing deter self from that.


Anybody else can build on this if needed...
 

paraguayandj

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become a dog ;) just kidding. Read the bible you should get enought shyt out of there
 

Distant Light

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Don't waste your time reading the DJ bible.

If you want to learn how to be an alpha male learn or read about Direct method. (shark, cortez, Woodhaven, etc) That method has the best advice on Bodylanguage, voice projection, and just being a Alpha male in general.

Pm me if you want the link to the Natura game journal.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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