"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Conquering the asian dame!

Nickface

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What's up guys. I recently asked this Korean chick her number a few weeks back. She's a solid 8/10. Her personality is pretty cool. English is not her first language but it is solid enough for her to understand most of my expressions/idioms. Anyway, I was wondering how to go about dating a fob chick. I feel like I need to ace the early stages of this "relationship" to develop anything serious.

I hung out with this girl two times already(one time each week) She likes to text a bit and even initiate some of the conversation albeit just texting. We had a good time but just went to eat dinner and some ice cream(both times!)

Someone please break down the rules for me so none of us lose interest and so I don't mess this one up. I feel this is totally different then dealing with an American chick.

PS. I absolutely have an Asian fetish... :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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donking

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treat her like a woman. she's nothing different.
 

Vice

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Drop the yellow fever. I got asian chicks before and the reason was because I wasn't one of those crazy dudes that loved them.
 

VladPatton

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It is doubtful she will want anything to do with an American in terms of relationship beyond ice cream and Hello Kitty coloring books. There is a thing as "too ethnic", and in general, unamericanized chicks of any nationality will tend to stick with their own kind. It's easier for them and their families.

Either way, for good measure, just ask her out and try moves on her, just as you would any chick.

Good luck.
 

LiveFreeX

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fob ? South Korea is a 1st world country dude, she's as americanized as they come. If you are a white guy, she wants to fvck you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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