"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Conquering the asian dame!

Nickface

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What's up guys. I recently asked this Korean chick her number a few weeks back. She's a solid 8/10. Her personality is pretty cool. English is not her first language but it is solid enough for her to understand most of my expressions/idioms. Anyway, I was wondering how to go about dating a fob chick. I feel like I need to ace the early stages of this "relationship" to develop anything serious.

I hung out with this girl two times already(one time each week) She likes to text a bit and even initiate some of the conversation albeit just texting. We had a good time but just went to eat dinner and some ice cream(both times!)

Someone please break down the rules for me so none of us lose interest and so I don't mess this one up. I feel this is totally different then dealing with an American chick.

PS. I absolutely have an Asian fetish... :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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donking

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treat her like a woman. she's nothing different.
 

Vice

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Drop the yellow fever. I got asian chicks before and the reason was because I wasn't one of those crazy dudes that loved them.
 

VladPatton

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It is doubtful she will want anything to do with an American in terms of relationship beyond ice cream and Hello Kitty coloring books. There is a thing as "too ethnic", and in general, unamericanized chicks of any nationality will tend to stick with their own kind. It's easier for them and their families.

Either way, for good measure, just ask her out and try moves on her, just as you would any chick.

Good luck.
 

LiveFreeX

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fob ? South Korea is a 1st world country dude, she's as americanized as they come. If you are a white guy, she wants to fvck you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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