"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ok, I have a 6 moth relationship with a Hb 8...
We are a ok couple and she dosen't fight to much with me or do anything wrong that i can think of. Although We are two different pepole it seems as if its getting boring. I see her once or twice a week. Everyday i wake up and look at other women... There are all women at my job and really decent looking. I also know other girls who i could be with, With a little effort. I dont know how much longer i can persue my boring relationship....

I saw this girl at a Skating rink who gave me her number although i never called This because i knew she wanted me and i dident wanna screw up the current relationship i have now... I havent seen her in months, So i see her for the first time in a while at her home town at a gas staion. I said happy birthday she kept walking and talking to her friend. Like she coulden't...Look at me for some reason. She Ignored me, This sets me off.. Its bad because i love attention and i had the taste of a Dj, I still have a model for a girlfriend. If i could pull it off once i could do it again. It was like i almost had to choose this web site deserves much credit.... Anyway ima cut the bullSH!T.

Comments please!!! Sugestions!! Speak To Me!!!!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just out of curiosity is your current gf the same girl you wrote that ridiculous letter to?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FLAUNT IT BABY, FLAUNT IT!

well hun, if you're a natural, attention lovin' man-ho then... :eek: SURE!

Alas! Go and get her my pretty peacock! ;)
 
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