"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Confusion

HollowHorizon

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Ok, I have a 6 moth relationship with a Hb 8...
We are a ok couple and she dosen't fight to much with me or do anything wrong that i can think of. Although We are two different pepole it seems as if its getting boring. I see her once or twice a week. Everyday i wake up and look at other women... There are all women at my job and really decent looking. I also know other girls who i could be with, With a little effort. I dont know how much longer i can persue my boring relationship....

I saw this girl at a Skating rink who gave me her number although i never called This because i knew she wanted me and i dident wanna screw up the current relationship i have now... I havent seen her in months, So i see her for the first time in a while at her home town at a gas staion. I said happy birthday she kept walking and talking to her friend. Like she coulden't...Look at me for some reason. She Ignored me, This sets me off.. Its bad because i love attention and i had the taste of a Dj, I still have a model for a girlfriend. If i could pull it off once i could do it again. It was like i almost had to choose this web site deserves much credit.... Anyway ima cut the bullSH!T.

Comments please!!! Sugestions!! Speak To Me!!!!!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tubbs

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Just out of curiosity is your current gf the same girl you wrote that ridiculous letter to?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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luv_ya_amj

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FLAUNT IT BABY, FLAUNT IT!

well hun, if you're a natural, attention lovin' man-ho then... :eek: SURE!

Alas! Go and get her my pretty peacock! ;)
 
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