"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I have no clue whats going on right now.

Right now, I am kind of in between... Do I like her or no?...

I think she's interested in me, cause of the way she acts and talks to me. At work, she would rub against me and we would flirt around a bit. It's all good. But there's one thing that I don't understand.

She would randomly talk to me about her having sex with her friend...(She was a virgin...not anymore) Like over break, it was a mutual hook-up between her and this guy. It's like, yeah we're both virgins so lets end it.

Today, she brought it up again. She was like, "oh, man...today's gonna be great. I'm gonna have sex after school with the same guy. We were suppose to do it like blah blah, but he was busy. So we are doing it after school.

Right at that moment...I was like...okay

I don't know if she tells anyone else that but...the fact that shes telling me this, makes me want to think it over again...Hmm do i want to ask her out or not...

I'm kinda confused. I know what to do but i want to hear others opinions on this.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't ask her out... When she flirts, flirt back... When she rubs against you, rub back. Start initiating the rubbing and flirting, but don't ask her out. Flirt for practice, for fun, or for whatever else, but understand that her talking about how excited she is to have sex with another guy is a clear indicator that she's not thinking of having sex with you. That may change in the future, but don't count on it. Concentrate on other girls.
 
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Girls are AFC. If she was interested in YOU, she would undoubtedly make it very clear to you. Honestly, I'll tell you what I would do.

Continue doing your thing, whatever it is. The next time she brings her F-Buddy up, strongly, but without anger give her this line

Listen, sweetheart, If you want to yack your mouth off about your boyfriends, i am not the person to talk to. There are plenty of your friends and desperate guys who would care, but unfortunately for you I DON'T.
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BAM BABY

Read her reactions. If she walks away disgusted, you probably hit it off a bit harsh, but no problem. If she goes deadly silent, then you did your work and did your work well. If she seems like she got uncomfortable, even better.

The fact is, if this chick keeps talking about the guy, she is excited about HIM. Because of that she will run her mouth to anyone who will listen while she gets anxious and jittery. Move on Bro, but try that line, if anything it will get you her respect.

[edit] read the bible, http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php
 
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sorry, i keep double posting :confused:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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