"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have no clue whats going on right now.

Right now, I am kind of in between... Do I like her or no?...

I think she's interested in me, cause of the way she acts and talks to me. At work, she would rub against me and we would flirt around a bit. It's all good. But there's one thing that I don't understand.

She would randomly talk to me about her having sex with her friend...(She was a virgin...not anymore) Like over break, it was a mutual hook-up between her and this guy. It's like, yeah we're both virgins so lets end it.

Today, she brought it up again. She was like, "oh, man...today's gonna be great. I'm gonna have sex after school with the same guy. We were suppose to do it like blah blah, but he was busy. So we are doing it after school.

Right at that moment...I was like...okay

I don't know if she tells anyone else that but...the fact that shes telling me this, makes me want to think it over again...Hmm do i want to ask her out or not...

I'm kinda confused. I know what to do but i want to hear others opinions on this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don't ask her out... When she flirts, flirt back... When she rubs against you, rub back. Start initiating the rubbing and flirting, but don't ask her out. Flirt for practice, for fun, or for whatever else, but understand that her talking about how excited she is to have sex with another guy is a clear indicator that she's not thinking of having sex with you. That may change in the future, but don't count on it. Concentrate on other girls.
 
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Girls are AFC. If she was interested in YOU, she would undoubtedly make it very clear to you. Honestly, I'll tell you what I would do.

Continue doing your thing, whatever it is. The next time she brings her F-Buddy up, strongly, but without anger give her this line

Listen, sweetheart, If you want to yack your mouth off about your boyfriends, i am not the person to talk to. There are plenty of your friends and desperate guys who would care, but unfortunately for you I DON'T.
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BAM BABY

Read her reactions. If she walks away disgusted, you probably hit it off a bit harsh, but no problem. If she goes deadly silent, then you did your work and did your work well. If she seems like she got uncomfortable, even better.

The fact is, if this chick keeps talking about the guy, she is excited about HIM. Because of that she will run her mouth to anyone who will listen while she gets anxious and jittery. Move on Bro, but try that line, if anything it will get you her respect.

[edit] read the bible, http://sucs.org/~nicholas/djb/index.php
 
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sorry, i keep double posting :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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