"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I asked out a 19yo HB9 two months ago, she said sure! I thought great. The date never happened and I cant figure out why? So I let it burn out for almost 4 months and said to myself "her loss" ya know. Well a week ago she calls at like 11:30pm
Im already sleeping,she wanted to go out. I said no, call me tommorow. She did. Since then she calls me twice, It goes back and forth. I play hard to get and so does she. What is my next move? It seems like she knows the game well and she also has alot of guy friends. I call her last night to see if she can come over, she already had plans with another guy to go midnight motorcycle riding with him before i called. I asked her if she wanted to hang out this weekend she said yes. Im trying to give her the Mack Daddy vibe here but im nervous.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She broke up with her bf and you're the rebound.
 
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Is that a good or bad thing? I don't know how to handle this one, its all really new for me what would you do?
 
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*looks around* I see no issue here. Go out with her and **** her. *shrug*
 
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Im trying not to be jealous of all her guy "friends". maybe im insecure but Im sure to get ****blocked somewhere down the line ya know. How would you handle that?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I would think if you want to get with her instead of her getting with her guy friends.. do the opposite of all her friends.

Like if theyre all over her, dont be, etc.. she'll wonder why you dont like her.


I dono maybe that wont help.. maybe someone could expand on it?

good luck
 
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You can shag her,but don't take any interaction with her too seriously (aka she's not LTR material,midnight motorcycle riding?).
 
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start taking the lead, whenever she asks you out say no, only go out on your terms when you ask her.
 
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Im trying not to be jealous of all her guy "friends". maybe im insecure but Im sure to get ****blocked somewhere down the line ya know. How would you handle that?
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Sure to get ****blocked? How do you figure? They may TRY, but who's to say they'll SUCCEED? Regardless... what do you care? Just live, man. Whatever happens, happens. Deal with it when and IF you get there.
 
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Thanks to all the DJs, What in the world is happening? She just came in to my work. I played it cool even though I was shaking in my boots, she played it off like I need to just to get something for my car. It was car wash! She looked HOT, Whats my next move?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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By the way she called me BUDDY. I hate that ****. And she asked about another guy, she used/still has a crush on.
 
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