"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I asked out a 19yo HB9 two months ago, she said sure! I thought great. The date never happened and I cant figure out why? So I let it burn out for almost 4 months and said to myself "her loss" ya know. Well a week ago she calls at like 11:30pm
Im already sleeping,she wanted to go out. I said no, call me tommorow. She did. Since then she calls me twice, It goes back and forth. I play hard to get and so does she. What is my next move? It seems like she knows the game well and she also has alot of guy friends. I call her last night to see if she can come over, she already had plans with another guy to go midnight motorcycle riding with him before i called. I asked her if she wanted to hang out this weekend she said yes. Im trying to give her the Mack Daddy vibe here but im nervous.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She broke up with her bf and you're the rebound.
 
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Is that a good or bad thing? I don't know how to handle this one, its all really new for me what would you do?
 
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*looks around* I see no issue here. Go out with her and **** her. *shrug*
 
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Im trying not to be jealous of all her guy "friends". maybe im insecure but Im sure to get ****blocked somewhere down the line ya know. How would you handle that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would think if you want to get with her instead of her getting with her guy friends.. do the opposite of all her friends.

Like if theyre all over her, dont be, etc.. she'll wonder why you dont like her.


I dono maybe that wont help.. maybe someone could expand on it?

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You can shag her,but don't take any interaction with her too seriously (aka she's not LTR material,midnight motorcycle riding?).
 
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start taking the lead, whenever she asks you out say no, only go out on your terms when you ask her.
 
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Im trying not to be jealous of all her guy "friends". maybe im insecure but Im sure to get ****blocked somewhere down the line ya know. How would you handle that?
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Sure to get ****blocked? How do you figure? They may TRY, but who's to say they'll SUCCEED? Regardless... what do you care? Just live, man. Whatever happens, happens. Deal with it when and IF you get there.
 
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Thanks to all the DJs, What in the world is happening? She just came in to my work. I played it cool even though I was shaking in my boots, she played it off like I need to just to get something for my car. It was car wash! She looked HOT, Whats my next move?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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By the way she called me BUDDY. I hate that ****. And she asked about another guy, she used/still has a crush on.
 
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