"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I asked out a 19yo HB9 two months ago, she said sure! I thought great. The date never happened and I cant figure out why? So I let it burn out for almost 4 months and said to myself "her loss" ya know. Well a week ago she calls at like 11:30pm
Im already sleeping,she wanted to go out. I said no, call me tommorow. She did. Since then she calls me twice, It goes back and forth. I play hard to get and so does she. What is my next move? It seems like she knows the game well and she also has alot of guy friends. I call her last night to see if she can come over, she already had plans with another guy to go midnight motorcycle riding with him before i called. I asked her if she wanted to hang out this weekend she said yes. Im trying to give her the Mack Daddy vibe here but im nervous.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She broke up with her bf and you're the rebound.
 
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Is that a good or bad thing? I don't know how to handle this one, its all really new for me what would you do?
 
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*looks around* I see no issue here. Go out with her and **** her. *shrug*
 
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Im trying not to be jealous of all her guy "friends". maybe im insecure but Im sure to get ****blocked somewhere down the line ya know. How would you handle that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would think if you want to get with her instead of her getting with her guy friends.. do the opposite of all her friends.

Like if theyre all over her, dont be, etc.. she'll wonder why you dont like her.


I dono maybe that wont help.. maybe someone could expand on it?

good luck
 
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You can shag her,but don't take any interaction with her too seriously (aka she's not LTR material,midnight motorcycle riding?).
 
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start taking the lead, whenever she asks you out say no, only go out on your terms when you ask her.
 
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Im trying not to be jealous of all her guy "friends". maybe im insecure but Im sure to get ****blocked somewhere down the line ya know. How would you handle that?
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Sure to get ****blocked? How do you figure? They may TRY, but who's to say they'll SUCCEED? Regardless... what do you care? Just live, man. Whatever happens, happens. Deal with it when and IF you get there.
 
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Thanks to all the DJs, What in the world is happening? She just came in to my work. I played it cool even though I was shaking in my boots, she played it off like I need to just to get something for my car. It was car wash! She looked HOT, Whats my next move?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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By the way she called me BUDDY. I hate that ****. And she asked about another guy, she used/still has a crush on.
 
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