There's this girl who's gaming me in my seminar. Some of her language and comments confuse me. Although I am 110% certain she wants me, I don't really know what she means or intends by some of her comments. She seems to get upset frequently at me. At one time, she called me "egotistical." There seemed to be nothing prompting this. Another time, she gave me a dirty look when my phone rang: "whos' calling you?!?" and again seemed really upset. What is going on with this unpredictable behavior?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Confusing Negs
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