There's this girl who's gaming me in my seminar. Some of her language and comments confuse me. Although I am 110% certain she wants me, I don't really know what she means or intends by some of her comments. She seems to get upset frequently at me. At one time, she called me "egotistical." There seemed to be nothing prompting this. Another time, she gave me a dirty look when my phone rang: "whos' calling you?!?" and again seemed really upset. What is going on with this unpredictable behavior?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Confusing Negs
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Dergz
Don Juan
is she by any chance hot?
Dergz
Don Juan
THEN BRING OUT THE BIG GUNZ!!!! read all yu can from Fingers' Weapons of Mass Seduction. too bad im jumpin out now. would have told u a couple of tactics i learnt from that stuff.
i'll be checkin on your progress
i'll be checkin on your progress
WC2
Master Don Juan
These are signs that she's interested. She called you egotistical to try to get a rise out of you, hoping you would come back at her (she wanted to hear you talk about her). Then she showed jealousy when someone else called you. Hot as hell? Hit that.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.