There's this girl who's gaming me in my seminar. Some of her language and comments confuse me. Although I am 110% certain she wants me, I don't really know what she means or intends by some of her comments. She seems to get upset frequently at me. At one time, she called me "egotistical." There seemed to be nothing prompting this. Another time, she gave me a dirty look when my phone rang: "whos' calling you?!?" and again seemed really upset. What is going on with this unpredictable behavior?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Confusing Negs
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