Confused

[niceguytoalphamale]

Hey guys I got a new girlfriend. She's really nice and sweet. Bought me loads of gifts for Valentine's day. Ok lets get to the point. She told me last night she loved me and would call me in the morning. Well I've gotten no call and it's now 5pm. She also hasn't been online as it says last active 16 hours ago. She lives next door to her father who has wifi so she can message me if she wanted to. I'm a little bit confused could some of the real men here help me on this one? Maybe a bit of reassurance or help me see something I'm clearly missing? P.s I haven't chased her.

 

[backseatjuan]

She is making you insecure. Get off the long term serious thing for now, chase tail. Make it so that she’s just a plate, one of several.

 

[sosousage]

Hey guys I got a new girlfriend. She's really nice and sweet. Bought me loads of gifts for Valentine's day. Ok lets get to the point. She told me last night she loved me and would call me in the morning. Well I've gotten no call and it's now 5pm. She also hasn't been online as it says last active 16 hours ago. She lives next door to her father who has wifi so she can message me if she wanted to. I'm a little bit confused could some of the real men here help me on this one? Maybe a bit of reassurance or help me see something I'm clearly missing? P.s I haven't chased her.

LOOOL I MISS THE TIMES WHEN I CARED ABOUT "SHES NOT ANSWERING"

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

LOOOL I MISS THE TIMES WHEN I CARED ABOUT "SHES NOT ANSWERING"

@sosousage are you being serious? Lol

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

She is making you insecure. Get off the long term serious thing for now, chase tail. Make it so that she’s just a plate, one of several.

@backseatjuan ok so am I doing the correct thing by not chasing her?

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

Ok guys she is online now but still hasn't messaged me or called. Is this a f****ng game?

 

[Spaz]

She is making you insecure. Get off the long term serious thing for now, chase tail. Make it so that she’s just a plate, one of several.

OP, if I were you, I'd do this ^^

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Spaz Ok, why would she say she loves me and she will call in the morning then to just not call me, go online and not even message me goodnight like she normally would.

 

[Sigma68]

I got a Valentine's card too. Even recognised the handwriting. I ALWAYS use my blow-up doll's hand when I write something distasteful.

 

[Spaz]

Because she is a woman and she will test you, consciously or not. If you reach out to her asking where she is or for any reason, you will fail this test. You must have SOMETHING else you can do besides wonder where she is.

Nicely put Sam.

As stated by Sam, it's because of that @niceguytoalphamale

A man must not be needy - remember that.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Spaz @samspade ok well I haven't been chasing so I think I'm doing everything right

 

[Dash Riprock]

Neediness, insecurity, and acting like a wussy is a HUGE turnoff to women and will kill a relationship quicker than anything else.

Don't chase or contact her. If/when she reaches out, take your sweet time responding. Tell her you were busy with things. If you really want this relationship or any to last you must make YOURSELF #1 and the woman maybe #4 behind family, career, friends. The more you can stay focused on your goals and objectives, without her, the more attractive you become to her.

 

[Trump]

She lives next door to her father who has wifi so she can message me if she wanted to. I'm a little bit confused could some of the real men here help me on this one?

Maybe her fathers wifi is down as well.

 

[Spaz]

@Spaz @samspade ok well I haven't been chasing so I think I'm doing everything right

Let her come to you, always.

It's the feminine way to chase, as such let her do the chasing.

 

[Chi Town]

Stop acting like a wussy, she should be wondering about you not the other way around, you're a senior don Juan but not acting like one, you also sound extremely insecure, "why would she say she loves me then not call" wtf is that?

Relax lil bro, stop making something when it's nothing, she didn't call you back because she has a life, as you should yourself, if you had a life this would not be a concern of yours.....

You need inner game work, you been here for awhile now, you should be better with this.

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Chi Town @LARaiders85 re read my question here and you owe me a apology on my other thread thanks, thanks for the good advice though

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

@Chi Town @LARaiders85 It's all good I don't need your apology.. people make mistakes sometimes and jump the gun. Perhaps help me with my original Question?

 

[Glassguy]

Hey guys I got a new girlfriend. She's really nice and sweet. Bought me loads of gifts for Valentine's day. Ok lets get to the point. She told me last night she loved me and would call me in the morning. Well I've gotten no call and it's now 5pm. She also hasn't been online as it says last active 16 hours ago. She lives next door to her father who has wifi so she can message me if she wanted to. I'm a little bit confused could some of the real men here help me on this one? Maybe a bit of reassurance or help me see something I'm clearly missing? P.s I haven't chased her.

You were just posting thread after thread about the last chick that confused you and now you found another and she is already saying that she loves you?

What are you missing?

 

[niceguytoalphamale]

You were just posting thread after thread about the last chick that confused you and now you found another and she is already saying that she loves you?

What are you missing?

@Glassguy ugh I know forgive me i always get the crazy ones.