"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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There's this girl I have this crush on.when ever I try to talk to her she seems like distance or look like she's faking her smile.then she will like always stare at me all the time like lock on eye contact.Like I think she likes me but I don't know what to do.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Apple477 said:
There's this girl I have this crush on.when ever I try to talk to her she seems like distance or look like she's faking her smile.then she will like always stare at me all the time like lock on eye contact.Like I think she likes me but I don't know what to do.
Can someone help please
 

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Apple477 said:
There's this girl I have this crush on.when ever I try to talk to her she seems like distance or look like she's faking her smile.then she will like always stare at me all the time like lock on eye contact.Like I think she likes me but I don't know what to do.
I would walk up to her and tell her that I find her attractive and to put her number in my phone so we can get to know each other.

If she doesn't do it then move on.
 

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do that^^

If you like her, why not go for it, right? Its better to fail than to not know what would have happened and in the end you gain experience.

Also, remember that there are many more girls in the world who are as beatifull as her and more. So rememeber that you do not need her. You want her but dont need her.
 
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